by Nicola Chan | May 21, 2021 | Mindset
As I awoke to the Patriarchy, and the lies I had been fed about what it meant to be a woman. From society, from my family, from my social groups. That women should be thin, live their lives on a diet trying to be thinner or stay thin. I went through a period of...
by Nicola Chan | May 21, 2021 | Mindset
As I find myself dressed in bright Orange attire ready for another random job with an event company I do agency work for, I feel like a Chameleon. A Chameleon, not only a type of Reptile but also a Marvel Comics Character well known for disguising himself as different...
by Nicola Chan | May 21, 2021 | Mindset
Can you see the mysterious dark, hooded character behind Alice? This image taken from my latest Burlesque performance was my way of releasing Shame, Guilt, and Suppression. By showing up in this act I was speaking up for all of the women who can’t. For women...
by Nicola Chan | May 20, 2021 | Mindset, NLP & Hypnotherapy
The nighttime cool air hits my skin like a flood of emotion. I sit by the open window looking at the night sky. I breathe in the fresh air and feel contentment about the choices I’ve made since I was last here. I can still see Jason and I (a fellow student of...
by Nicola Chan | May 20, 2021 | Mindset
When given the label of a Teen Mum what you get is a casting of judgments about what type of a Mum you’ll be. Almost from the very get-go. You are deemed a failure and you’ll never amount to anything. You’ll never have a job and you’ll always...
